Winners vs. Losers
A Winner makes commitments;A Loser makes promises.
A Winner never quits;Loser always quits.
Winners have dreams;Loser have schemes.
Winners say,"I must do something";Losers say,"Something must be done."
Winners are a part of the team;Losers are apart from the team.
Winners see the gain; Losers see the pain.
Winners see possibilities;Losers see problems.
Winners believe in win/win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.
Winners use hard arguments but soft words;Losers use soft arguments but hard words.
The Winner says, "I will do it";The Loser says, "Let me see what I can do";
The Winner is always part of the answer; The Loser is always part of the problem.
The Winner always has a plan; The Loser always has an excuse.
The Winner says,"Let me do it for you; The Loser says;" That is not my job."
The Winner sees an answer for every problem; The Loser sees a problem for every answer.
The Winner says," It may be difficult but it is possible"; The Loser says,"It may be possible but it is too difficult."
When a Winner makes a mistake, he says,"I was wrong";When a Loser makes a mistake, he says," It wasn't my fault."
Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.
Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you would, not want them to do to you";Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."
Winners make it happen; Losers let it happen.